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It takes a bigger man to admit their faults.
March 1, 2013
2:34 pm
Killa-Mo187
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I need some advice fam. And I need the most honest opinion of it all. So here we go.

 

Tuesday night my well now ex best friend and I had a small argument. Than it just got alil heated and names were called.... And long story short... I ended up throwing the first and only punch.

 

Well it was not really a punch it was more of he provoked me, I grabbed him and I knew my hand was going right for his neck.

 

Do I feel bad for what I did? Yes I do.

 

Have I apologized for it? Yea I did. Matter of fact below is that apology letter

 

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Did I get the response I expected? Yes I did.

 

I found out today that I was to give him back every single thing I ever borrowed or was given from him to me and that our friendship can never ever be fixed.

 

So my question for the fam is this.

 

Should I continue to wait this all out? Or should I just officially let it go, sever him from my life, and just move the fuck on?

 

I await all answers. Thanks for reading and MCL

March 1, 2013
2:41 pm
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Move the fuck on. I wouldn't/couldn't ever be friends with someone who hit me over some trivial shit, of course, I would've fought back. We would've had a full on knock down brawl. Either way, friendship over. Maybe you should learn to be a better person and not fight your friends, you'll end up with none. If you were such great friends why did you let it get to that point in the first place? Grow the fuck up dude, getting mad over childish name calling is exactly that, childish. Move on and grow up, you're the one at fault here.

March 1, 2013
2:52 pm
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Killa-Mo187 said:

I found out today that I was to give him back every single thing I ever borrowed or was given from him to me and that our friendship can never ever be fixed.

to me, sounds very clear from this. 

 

im not too sure that the topic title applies in this case, or if its even true at all. 

to be brutal, youve always had something of a knack for turning people against you, right?

 

you cant hang your head and say, 'aw, shucks' after the fight.  too late, then. 

  awfully paranoid, arent you?   

March 1, 2013
3:20 pm
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Maybe things are different with me but I have fist fought my best friend twice and I've known him half my life. First time over a basketball game and a second time because of xanax....We always ended up being cool like a month later. If the dude is a true friend he will forget about it soon no matter who was in the wrong. If he doesn't, then well maybe he wasn't that much of a friend. To me a real man must be willing to swallow his pride and bury the hatchet. You did that with your apology letter considering nobody writes letters anymore.

Everything will work out as it should

March 1, 2013
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Same with me Slum, my friend and I have known each other for over a decade now, we grew up together, we fought over shit, we got over shit. We're still good friends and we move on from it.

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March 1, 2013
4:52 pm
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patjoyce said:

Move the fuck on. I wouldn't/couldn't ever be friends with someone who hit me over some trivial shit, of course, I would've fought back. We would've had a full on knock down brawl. Either way, friendship over. Maybe you should learn to be a better person and not fight your friends, you'll end up with none. If you were such great friends why did you let it get to that point in the first place? Grow the fuck up dude, getting mad over childish name calling is exactly that, childish. Move on and grow up, you're the one at fault here.

I already admitted that I was at fault on some parts.

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